If I were to write a book about my life, I would write about the specific revelation which the Lord has given me, in many different particular times of my life, going back to when I was very young, and continuing to this present time. I’ll never cease marveling at the way God reveals Himself, in the exact times that I need to see and hear Him, as He tends to my individual needs, responding to whatever unique perplexity I am experiencing at the time. When I reflect on certain hard times in my life, as an adolescent then young woman then NOT-so-young woman…I see how the Lord has led me through very different and very specific life lessons, teaching me, all the while holding me in His perfect mighty tender loving hands. This is one of those times.
The past few months, the Lord has been showing me His PURITY. And the more I see the complete purity of His love for me, the more I am blown away by it, but also made aware of my need for a PURE love in my own heart. My need for purity of thoughts, purity of mind, of emotion, of motivations, speech, vision, purity of WHOLE SPIRIT! I share this here NOT to claim that I have achieved this, but to proclaim that it CAN be achieved in this life- with deliberate attention targeted straight against its opposite. As I combat my fallen flesh day in and day out, my battle is made simple by striving for this one thing: A PURE HEART.
We can have this! But only by living a life of complete obedience to His commands, complete submission to Him as the Bridegroom Lover of our souls.
As I write this “note”, I ENTREAT YOU to strive after this with me! In overcoming the temptations which are ever upon us, we will stand out to the others in this world who don’t realize or accept Christ’s love for them yet. We will bid them come to HIM just by the nature of our pure hearts. And as Christ’s bride, we will shine gloriously for our Lover, and we’ll be found spotless when He comes for us! AND our earthly marriages will be sanctified before Him! MAJOR BONUS!
We are often asked to view the Lord as our Judge, as our Redeemer, as our Father, as our Friend and Comforter. But He is also our BRIDEGROOM! Ephesians 5 is built on and around this pictorius. It starts with an identification of Christ as the ultimate Giver of love, the sweet-smelling Sacrifice Who gave Himself for us, Who died to His own will completely so we could receive the love of the Father for eternity, and dwell in His presence. Think about that for a minute.
Then, in the VERY NEXT verses of Ephesians 5, we are told to have NOTHING TO DO WITH uncleanness, fornication, filthiness, covetousness, foolish talking and vain jesting. It tells us to REPROVE all of the above. To walk carefully in His light. Giving NO PLACE to anything that would defile us, WISELY KNOWING HIS WILL. And THANKING Him for it! NOT wishing we could live our own way, but THANKING HIM for choosing us out, to live for HIS purposes of purity! WOW again!!
THEN, after all that, the chapter gives the application to the marriage relationship. The husband being the head of one wife, loving her and giving up His own life in sacrifice for her. The wife submitting to his lead, giving up her own life as well, in accepting reverence of him. Verse 33 is not an if-then statement! I believe that the commission it presents is NOT cancelled if one or the other partners fails to fulfill it. It is a directive given separately to both parts of the marriage union! This is the part that goes against the nature of our flesh. If the human wife fails to submit in reverence to her husband, he is still to love her! Christ continues to love us when we don’t submit to Him! Likewise, if the human husband fails to love the wife selflessly, she is STILL TO FOLLOW AFTER HIM! Disobedience to verse 33 on either person’s part does not nullify all the verses in the beginning of the chapter! It doesn’t excuse lasciviousness or extra-marital covetousness of ANY KIND! EVER!
There are times when a husband and wife will not feel fulfilled, justified, appreciated, recognized or even loved. Those times do not excuse a selfish pursuit of sin-justification or seeking out of love from any other source other than God Himself. HE WILL FILL THE VOIDS and give us what we need in those times! And we must always evaluate our “needs” against the reflection of Christ’s image of purity. We don’t “need” ANYTHING that is contrary to His Word! The enemy would have us seek to fill the “voids” in ways that ultimately break down our PURITY of heart. This leads to the reign of sin in our homes and in our communities. We must guard our purity like we would guard our family against an intruding perpetrator trying to get into our home on a dark night.
Proverbs 22:11 tells us that whoever loves pureness of heart will have the king’s friendship; that his lips will grace the king’s presence. Matthew 5:8 tells us that the pure in heart will be blessed, and they will see God. I don’t think Jesus meant they will WAIT to see Him when they die. They’ll see Him NOW! I Timothy tells us of love for each other that comes from a pure heart, love that is of a good conscience, of faith unfeigned. WOW! Shall I continue?? Philippians 4:8 tells us to think on pure things. Proverbs 15 tells us that the words of the pure are pleasant, and that their opposite are a wicked abomination to the Lord. Proverbs 30:5 tells us that EVERY WORD GOD SPEAKS is PURE and that He is a shield to anyone who trusts Him. II Timothy tells us to call unto God out of a pure heart. Hebrews 10 tells us to wash our bodies with pure water, because they are sprinkled with an evil conscience. Revelation 22 describes a river of PURE water in the presence of God. It is a PURE crystal river of life, flowing from the throne of God and the spotless Lamb. James 3 tells us that WISDOM from above is “FIRST of all PURE”. I John 3 tells us that being pure makes us LIKE the most pure Himself.
The Lord doesn’t bring us to an entire understanding of Himself all at once. Our feeble human minds can’t handle it. John the apostle whom Jesus loved came close to this on Patmos. And look how his revelation has brought large volumes of books and commentaries about its meaning, and we STILL cannot fully understand its meaning!
The Lord is unfathomable. But He does lead us consistently through a solid understanding of Himself part by part, gradually, as we seek Him out and continue to find Him. Every lesson he teaches us is woven together for our good, for fulfilling His perfection in us. The Potter’s work in us continues to mold us as we let Him put His hands on our lives. Otherwise we are just formless wet clay spinning on the Potter’s wheel out of control, faster and faster, splattering everywhere making a mess of things, not taking the shape we are intended to. Submitting to Him is giving His hands the control on the wheel that is our very life. So thankful for His suffering, which brought us salvation—that we can’t bring ourselves to hurt Him further with our willful sin, which feels good only for a season. When we see our sin the way He sees it, only then can we grow into what He really wants us to be. Then our communion with Him is richer, sweeter, closer than any human relationship we can ever attain. It is so beautiful.
May you overcome the temptations that present themselves to you, that the Lord allows you to endure, with an upright spirit. May you be entire and wanting nothing. James 1. I want this for every single one of my Facebook friends! I love you.
I give you one last passage; just soak it up like a thirsty sponge! I am meditating on this passage today. From II Timothy 2:
“You then, my child, BE STRONG in the GRACE that is in Christ JESUS. Endure hardship like a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets involved in civilian affairs- he wants to please his commanding officer. Reflect on what I am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all this. God’s Word is not chained. I endure everything for the sake of the elect, that they too may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory. If we died with Him, we will also LIVE with Him! If we ENDURE, we will also REIGN with Him! If we disown Him, He will also disown us. But if we are faithless, He WILL REMAIN FAITHFUL, for He cannot disown Himself.”
~AMEN over and over and over until the Lord Jesus takes me in death or in His sweet rapture~
Davida